Everything sublime is as difficult as it is rare. Baruch Spinoza

Thursday, October 16, 2025

On the Road Again

Autumn is upon us.


I took this photo as I was pulling into the driveway a couple of days ago. I have now driven a car four times since the end of 2020. I made two short, solo trips this week. I think I may be on the road again. For those who don't know, I started having serious, undiagnosed back pain in 2021, so bad it affected my mobility. I was treated more like a mental patient than a medical patient. I could not walk far, which meant I needed dropping off at the door. To the only place I was going, the medical clinic.

Isn't it sad how women, in general, and older women in particular, are treated this way. I spent three miserable years before changing clinics and actually receiving help. Part of it is our private equity owned medical system, but not all. This is an age-old problem. The more assertive and persistent a woman is the more she is deemed unsteady. 

Back to the positive. I still have pain and I won't be running any marathons anytime soon, but I am able to regain independence, which is wonderful.

2 comments:

Far Side of Fifty said...

Yeah for driving again! Sorry you still have pain, I understand pain and it is not easy.

Boud said...

I'm really glad you're driving again. It's taken a while to find real help.